You’re about to visit a massage parlor or – been there, you know but. But some racy questions are bothering you, causing you to feel stiff and anxious. We’ve collected some specific questions and provide brief and comprehensive answers.
1. I am self-conscious about certain parts of my body, should I undress completely?
Complexes, shyness, and dissatisfaction with your body very often become a barrier not only for personal life but also for the usual need to undergo a medical examination or undress in a massage parlor. It can be overweight, acne, scars, increased hairiness, etc.
Remember, there are no perfect people (even in glossy magazines, beauties are retouched by Photoshop). And the masseur looks at you with the eyes of a doctor and will not notice, let alone talk about you. For him, you are the patient, and your wish is the law. You can ask not to touch a certain area of the body or to remain partially clothed or covered with a sheet.
In good salons in any country, such as Armonia in the UAE, you will always be treated with the utmost attention and care. So don’t be afraid to put your trust in the professionals of your business.
2. What if I feel aroused during the massage and the masseur notices?
While it is easy for women to hide their arousal, it is extremely difficult for men because of the erection that occurs. In fact, it is quite natural. During the massage, any gentle touch can trigger a parasympathetic impulse, and an erection occurs. For men, the best option is to wear tight-fitting swimming trunks. Or, as a last resort, ask for a pause and calm down.
3. What if I have a sudden urge to pee or can’t hold my gas?
If you have a sudden urge to pee during the massage, just say so and go to the toilet. If you clench your sciatic muscles and tense up, the massage will be useless. Any discomfort, anxiety, and physical factors, must be eliminated. It is the same with gas. If it happens randomly, it should not be noticed by the masseur. You may also interrupt the treatment and ask to leave to go to the bathroom.
4. Can I talk during a massage?
A massage therapist, although it is a service industry, is still a medical profession. It is better not to talk but to concentrate on the sensations, relax as much as possible, and even sleep. But you can always express your requests or wishes if you are not comfortable: cold, hot, painful, or unpleasant or if you forgot to say something during the consultation.
5. What if I’m ticklish?
Everyone is ticklish to some degree. Warn the masseur. But usually, moderate and light movements during the massage will not cause tickling.
6. Does the masseur leave the room when I undress?
Yes. The masseur will ask you to undress depending on the massage – partially or completely. If you have problem areas around the tailbone, thighs, and buttocks, any clothes will be tight and uncomfortable. The specialist will always take care of your comfort and offer a towel (or even disposable underwear). The masseur will only enter the room when you are ready.
7. Is it possible and is it necessary to tip a masseur?
If you visit a professional massage parlor in Europe, a tip of 15-20% is considered mandatory. In Ukraine, there are no prescriptions and rules on this issue. Sometimes it depends on the specialist or clinic. The masseur does not expect such “gratitude” from you and may refuse. But a sincere gratitude without money, in the form of a gift, is also possible. Everything depends on your good and sincere intentions.
8. How do you know if it’s a real massage clinic?
It seems like “massage parlors” that offer sensual or erotic massage should look shabby, but sometimes it can be difficult to recognize such places. If this is your first time visiting a massage parlor, it would be a good idea to ask questions like these first:
- Do you practice therapeutic massage?
- Do you have a license for this type of activity?
- Do you require a health certificate from your patients?
During the massage, a certified massage therapist will not come into touch with your nipples or genitalia.
